I always wanted to ask on this…when some say they want to be treated equally, I get lost. As a man in the West, crying alone can land you a social life where you are routinely taken advantage of. We are expected to balance new liberal idealism with the older generations and their ideas of responsibility. When nowadays, the ability for a man who was raised impoverished and lacks opportunity will no doubt face some issues getting there. Every interaction between two men on different wavelengths has potential to become a power measuring contest.
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Typically the more confident Male to set the bar of the relations between these individuals is one who is physically stronger, which means that we as a society must be measured in this way. In a corporate world it is measured by our ability to communicate and show our worth above others who may be vying for the same position or salary. This will turn worse than a physical fight. This becomes a measure of who is more cunning, which can destroy literally an entire life and its stability. In the current social order, that means destruction of man and woman, together.
If we are to have some kind of equality, and I dont mean to offend, women have to understand men conflict by nature. They will have to demonstrate an equal amount of power and ability over men to make themselves heard. Men settle things through labour. We fight or we compete professionally. We make bonds and we break them. Women who want economic justice would probably want to express their worth as indispensable even held to a Male. I have never understood the methods of nude protesting as a power play.
If anything most men are seeing it as a free show here. Not really trying to explain in an outside way. Merely think that if women want this kind of social and economic equality, they need to develop the fortitude to challenge men on their terms. She led a ruthless group across Britain to gather up the tribes oppressed by Rome. Those who denied her learned something about crossing her. She used whatever means needed. Never did she submit to being something of a tool like Cleopatra. Her downfall was to be too arrogant and allowed Gaius to choose the battlefield.
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I believe we are already equal, but we are definitely different. In that regard, whatever is wanted by women would mean they tool have to know everything about men and how they conduct their operations. I wouldnt mind if we could establish something different. Mostly because I despite Anglo culture and how it has influenced social relations. At its core, I argue it is one of the most reactionary kinds of culture and fundamentally places women as objects under a noble class. Marx is certainly a great figure to analyse the class components of the female sex. Unfortunately, muscles are dumb and hold society back.
When muscles attacks smarts, smarts need the legal right to eliminate. Otherwise, smarts has literally no reason to be violent as smart is default superior to muscles. There is only one gender and that gender is male. Good sandwich making as well. Feminism is irrelevant because men usually do everything. I can go on and on. This is why we need rules that say you are only allowed the property you need…. The type of women that go for you will end up childless, and the future will be more peaceful, less greedy, but most importantly, less retarded.
Whoa ooh ooh, whoa ooh ooh, Guitar! I wanna know, I need to know! So come on I gotta know, I need to know! So come on I gotta know So come on tell me! Bitch you gave me the fucking clap! Men learn real fast that no one will help us, no one cares about us…all we are are wallets and tools for the meat grinder. Countless men die each year to maintain cities and countries…building and defending them, no one bats an eye….
This comment is a waste of time…the needs and wants of men are of little importance or value…society and civilization will suffer greatly for this in the end. Aay ghal rande tujha aaycha bhosda chinal chodu rand yedyabhokachi. Kachakacha jhavun foda fadin tujha rande ayjhawade. I can see some of the damage that we have done with our patriarchy society.
I felt shamed, belittled and worthless.
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Often I do see the arrogance of many men in not seeking input and advice from women thinking that the men know best and all. Men need the input and wisdom of the women in their life to help them make better decisions and have overall understanding how to resolve problems and issues. Jesus told husbands to lay down their life for their wives, but it is a difficult thing for husbands to do.
In reality, men and women are two unique role players who fit best in male-female relationships usually with the male in charge. Anything else is a perversion of nature that leads to all sorts of unintended consequences, usually in the form of undeveloped, immature, and ill-equipped children of single parents. And this is not to encourage women towards any kind of traditionalism. The best solution is for women and men to stop bargaining societal roles for access to sex-resources. Rich women are perfectly capable of having a great relationship and sex life with poor men whom they support to the extent they do not brainwash themselves with Disney like princesism.
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Feminists keep making the same old tired mistakes. Men need to be able to show their emotions just like women. And how dare you tell men how they should feel! Would you accept the same advice from a man telling you how you should feel. The patriarchy harms everybody. NO, the patriarchy in the western world died out long ago.
In the middle east and parts of asia it still exists to a degree but is fading even there. Because of the technology MEN have invented to protect the individual when they travel cars, busses, planes etc and the safety of our modern society. I do not speak for the wilder parts of the world, but most of the most rabid feminists do NOT live in the wilder parts of the world, they are sooo busy trying to find a reason to bash their own men. You have absolutely NO right to do that.
Get back in your box. The world has changed and men, who like travel, adventure and danger can no longer find it in our modern society. So a small number commit suicide. But no one suggests banning cars, though think of the lives it would save! It is true that feminism is not about equality between men and women. It never has been. It has always been about pushing women into positions of power at the expense of actual equality and fairness. Should I say all women are like that? As if all men do this. In your article all men are guilty. As you have already pointed out, most of the lawmakers were men and they have already created laws against rape.
Men convicted of rape are punished.
Women who wrongfully accuse men of rape are routinely forgiven. Vast difference of outcome. But let me ask you, would you like to be called a man? Would you feel insulted? This article is sooo full of misandry and crazy feminist nonsense I felt compelled to write a rebuttal. And I do feel sorry for the men you treat at your clinic, being fed this man blaming and man shaming ideology.
Our world has changed dramatically in the last few hundred years and both men and women are trying to come to terms with it. So far the majority have managed to do so reasonably well, but a number of individuals and fringe elements amongst which I count feminists are determined to shadow box their fears; Which is only causing more problems for the world.
Maybe one day you will see the world in a clearer light, but I doubt it. Evangelists rarely see the error of their ways, they continue to indoctrinate themselves each and every day. While I am not a feminist, I really do like the point you made. You talked about the patriarchy as being like a system that needs to be broken, rather than having women equal to men. I also liked how you mentioned some of the struggles that men face. Power leads to corruption. They want to cherry pick. Just like this article. Cherry pick all of the good, and reject all of the bad.
The US is built upon the backs of hardworking Americans. Almost all of it by men. But women get to enjoy the fruit, too. It beats Matriarchy, where the average life span is significantly lower, and infant mortality is exponentially higher. The author of this article is hanging up her daddy issues on men.
Get out in the field. You are commenting using your WordPress. You are commenting using your Twitter account. You are commenting using your Facebook account. Notify me of new comments via email. Would success mean that women significantly increase their rates of violent crime and interpersonal violence to match that of men around the world? Would success mean that women become the most likely group to die in gun and knife violence with other women all over the world?
Would success mean that women working in aid roles begin abusing, sexually assaulting and sexually exploiting boys in deprived areas to match the male role model we currently have? Would success mean women in power developing regimes in which baby boys were murdered or aborted because no one wanted a son? Would success mean that women must begin carrying out many more terrorist acts and mass murders all over the world, especially school shootings — to claim equality with the men?
You can zoom in on this image if it displays too small The point is this: Men are not the blueprint. Published August 4, August 4, It sounds like, in your current company and in your current position, you haven't yet found a way to do so.
So, while there might be ways perhaps by adjusting your definitions of "continue climbing" and "so much time" , it isn't clear that you can. In my current company, at a certain level, you are expected to sacrifice a lot of your personal life for the company needs. For example, some of the senior folks spend the entire week away from their families, and only return home on the weekend. That's not something I would ever do, but they are rewarded well, and it seems to work out well for their families. Perhaps if you like your company, you need to re-think your goals a bit.
All of us eventually settle into a work-life balance that meets our needs. Some of us work more, some of us work less. Some accept a lot of stress, others not so much. The key is to get to a place where you are happy with what you are doing and the rewards you get back. Don't feel that you need to be the top "ladder climber" at your company. Perhaps you are better off climbing less or climbing more slowly, and receiving better personal relationships and health in return.
Or perhaps you need to find a different situation that better balances your work-life needs. Only you can decide. Home Questions Tags Users Unanswered. How can I climb the corporate ladder while being disabled and having other life commitments? And I would appreciate any advice on alternatives. AnyaPPK 84 1 3. So it is possible to climb the ladder and maintain some healthy work life balance, but it is not easy: Why do you want to climb the ladder?
Money, recognition, fame, felling of being more productive? You can't have it all, at least not to the same extent. Prioritizing will help you getting the things that are really important to you. You just have to be clear about what they are. Communicate your priorities and your goals. The more the people around you know about your goals, the more they can help to achieve this.
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Be consistent and true to yourself. There will be plenty of times where two of your goals are in conflict with each other. Look at your priority list and make the call from there. This may create short term pain and conflict but in the long run everyone will respect you for it and you will be happier as a person. You need to do a few things. It is short but to the point. Many women want to believe we have these things mastered but we don't And it is obvious every day. I have made a couple of these mistakes myself. The points that I found the most helpful were 6 and 7, Avoid overworking and manage your friendliness respectively.
Too many woman want to take care of their social needs at the office. Even before reading this I felt some were going overboard with this. And overworking; I've learned that the hard way. I spent years at two different companies working like a dog keeping all the stats up and no way were they going to promote me up and try to find someone to replace me well until they had to because I left. This time I'm working smarter, not harder. I have seen others make this mistake as well and they continue to be top performers but frustrated because they can't move up. The part on aviding overwork explains why it is not successful.
When you know better, you can do better. This book is common sense to men and an eye opener for women. It really goes to show if you can act the part, you can climb the corporate ladder. I wish I would have read this ten years ago and stuck it to the catty and petty women I worked with.
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